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How To Sexually Dominate A Woman

Published February 13, 2014 in Game , Sex - 13 Comments

One of the biggest aspects of my game is dominance, I have a very strong frame and I impose my frame in every aspect of my dealings with women. Where that frame manifests the most is in the bedroom, in how I sexually dominate my women. It’s not a matter of one phrase I say, it’s a way of life. I’m not just trying to put my dick in her, I’m trying to reprogram her brain, to reprogram her dopamine receptors, to make myself like a drug to the women I sleep with.

Kaitlyn will readily admit that and it’s one the reasons she still has her breakdowns once in a while; she is so obsessed with me that the highs that I give her only make the lows seem that much more low. Even though 95% of the time she’s blissfully happy with me, the 5% of the time she starts thinking about the fact that I’m with other girls and making them feel similar feelings makes it that much harder. As opposed to a typical relationship where she may think,  “Yeah he’s nice. Oh, he does this for me. Oh, we have sex a couple of times a week, it’s nice and safe and boring.”, It’s just the not the same. Now that she’s tasted what I can give her, she can’t even think about what it would be like to be with someone else.

And that’s where I’ll differ from some of the theorists in the Manosphere who say that once a woman has had more than 5 cocks in her, she’s completely unable to pair bond or that you’ll never make her a good woman or that you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. All that bullshit. It’s just not true. Most girls in college are whoring it up because they’re searching for satisfaction, sexually, and if they don’t find it they just keep on looking. But once they find it, they don’t want to look anywhere else for it which is one of the reasons why girls will always go for the asshole. Not just because he’s an asshole but because that guy fucks the shit out of them. And when I say, “fuck the shit out of them”, I mean putting her into subspace.

If you don’t know what subspace is, then you’re not fucking your girl hard enough. I didn’t know what the technical term was until recently, shout out to Arya Blue, but I had had reports of the experience from my conquests numerous times. Where a women will tell me she feels like she’s floating, or she can’t feel anything or she can’t feel her body. The mind-body connection is gone and you literally fuck her into her subconscious where she has no perception of time, it just feels like endless pleasure. A trance state if you will. If you can fuck a girl into that, you can do whatever you want and she’ll keep coming back. That’s not to say become a humongous asshole who treats his women like shit just because they’re addicted to him. That’s not what I’m saying or advocating here in any way shape or form. But the best way to maintain frame is to sexually dominate your woman. There is no better feeling as woman than uncontrollable orgasm. There’s just no if, ands or buts about it. Girls feel more pleasure during sex if you do them right. Make them thank god he made her a woman.

So, how to actually fuck your women into that…read the Red Pill Orgasm. It’s shockingly in-depth. I was able to get a girl into subspace before I read this but once I had read it, it was much much easier. He talks a little about the way of stroking her pussy with your cock, something like 8 shallow strokes and 1 deep. Then the next cycle is 7 shallow, 2 deep. 6, 3. 5,4. 4, 5 etc. And you just keep on repeating that and go from there. So, it’s not about one particular move; Yes, they like it rough. Yes, you should pin them against a wall, throw them on your bed. Yes, you should put your hand around their throat. Not choking off air supply, but putting pressure on the neck muscles to control blood flow into her brain and intensify her orgasms.

To be continued….


[This is part 1 of 3 in my series on sexual dominance, click here for part 2, here for part 3.]

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Halfbreed - February 13, 2014 Reply

Hey man, thanks for the shout out.

Glad you and Kaitlyn enjoyed my book. 😉

    Jsploosh - February 13, 2014 Reply

    Anytime my dude. I’ll get around to the proper review of it soon.

Tin Man - February 14, 2014 Reply

Great article. Every Man has to perfect is style, his manner and projection. Sex is just a projection – come off as cocky and fun, then get them in the bedroom and the first thing you do is start asking “can I do this, can I do that” or “how does that feel” — and from my experience, you’re done.

You talked about “making her float” — having an out of body experience — one of the things that I’ve always like to hear after (and I’ve heard it more often that not) is this…

“OMG, I my legs are shaky, I don’t think I could walk”

I guess along the same lines as you were going. Great article J – keep it up!!

    Tina - May 27, 2016 Reply

    Well, SIR! You seemed to have pin- pointed some of us women. You are correct! I also teach domination. Meaning, I teach men how to become more dominate in the bedroom. It’s mind blowing how they can’t or don’t have the self-confidence to do so. It’s the way you present the idea to the lady. We are just as horny but want you guys to finesse your way into our mating ritual. Entice us! But once you do. You better bring your A GAME!

    No, Don’t ask the girl if she likes this or that during the sex session. OMG!Hello, Huge turn-off. Ask her while you’re walking to the car. Ask her ” Are you good girl, a naughty girl?

    You teach from a man’s point a view. I’m a female and it different perceptive as well.

Wald - March 6, 2014 Reply

Bought the book. Time for another journey.


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James Braudo - April 7, 2016 Reply


I purchased your book called Red Pill Dominance. Do I get a hard copy in the mail or is it just a online version? Please let me know as soon as you can thanks!

    Jsploosh - December 27, 2016 Reply

    Online PDF.

    2017 will bring a new hardcover….stay tuned

Greg Jurasz - June 8, 2016 Reply

Hello, I really like what I see on your site. You know, the first paragraph nailed it, I was raised and believed you treat women gently in bed. All that changed Saturday when I met a woman that is a true SUB!! She asked me, “have you ever fucked a woman so hard she could not walk”, and I was so taken aback, I did not have an answer because the answer was NO. She told me that all women deep down want a man to put a collar on them and fuck them like a dog!! I used to have those feelings but after a decade of fucking frigid woman they disappeared. But Saturday they came back. I fucked her but she wanted MORE and I want to give it to her. I definitely will be buying your book!!!


Greg Jurasz

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