One little rule I have with anyone I share my bed with is that if they are about to cum or they want to cum, they have to ask permission before they do. I take pride in my sexual prowess. I enjoy watching a woman cum from my hand, my cock or my mouth and the dominance factor plays in when she has to ask for permission. Because then you’re able to bring her right to the edge and taper it down, to tease her when she’s right on the cusp and she will hate you for it in the moment. She’ll whimper and whine and say, “Please fuck me harder”, and you can talk to them saying, “Oh is this not enough for you. Oh you want more of my big cock pounding your tight little pussy.” And then you amp it up to 20% and say, “Is this hard enough for? Is it?”, when you’re obviously not fucking her as hard as you can. She’ll start wiggling her hips or grabbing your ass trying to get you to fuck her harder and, you know, you maintain the frame of you being the source of her pleasure. You are in control of if she gets off or not, you are in control of everything. It all comes down to that. You are the one in control. You are gracing her pussy with the presence of your cock.
Laid NYC has that post “Your seed Is Gold” and it has applicable angles to sexual dominance beyond just the gold of the semen but that my cock is gold. It is something earned not freely given. It is a reward for being a good girl and that is one my biggest points of game; if you can master the art of punishment and reward, it will massively and rapidly improve your success with women even outside the bedroom. You punish behaviors you don’t want, i.e. if she looks at her phone too much, if she’s texting in your presence. You punish what you don’t want quickly and you slowly reward what you do want. So you’re not going to faun over her and give her a million compliments just because she put her phone away or brought you something to eat or did anything for you that you want her to do. You reward slowly because girls love the challenge.
That’s why they love assholes, that’s why they love the player guy who they think is changing for them. So you can be the challenge without any of the assholeness. True assholeness. I’m talking about the people who ruin women for the rest of us. It’s very noticeable once you start to get the hang of it. Once you have a woman completely sexually dominated, you own her. Not in a feminist “oh my god, she’s your slave” kind of way but she will do anything to keep her source of pleasure, her drug supply if you will, from being cut off. That’s also where I disagree with the whole once she’s had ten dicks in her she can’t pair bond, that’s bullshit. Now exceptions don’t prove any rules, I’m not trying to say that they do but in my experience know how to sexually dominate a woman it doesn’t matter how many cocks she’s had inside of her; all that matters is yours.
The Red Pill Orgasm is a great guide, I wish I’d had it when I first started fucking. I would have been light years ahead of where I was. I figured out most of it on my own but there’s still plenty of things in there that I had never even thought about. He talks about the chakras and transference of energy and being able to orgasm with ejaculating as a male. It’s a wonderful thing, it’s awesome. it makes you last longer and I can last basically as long as I want to in bed. If I feel like I’m in spot where the sensations are too pleasurable and I would be about to cum I can easily hold it off, switch positions and pull off and make her taste her own cum off my cock. I can do whatever I want. I don’t accidentally orgasm any more. No fap has a lot to with that, I’ve probably masturbated five times in the last six months maybe. Rough estimate, I don’t keep track. I get laid a lot so I don’t need that. And it really does help. If you’re masturbating three times a day, by the time you actually feel a pussy it’s going to feel so good that “Oh god, I can’t control it and ahh, I’m a premature ejaculator.” It’s fucking being in control of yourself, in every aspect of your life. Not just controlling your orgasms by turning on porn and beating your meat three times a day. You’re a slave to your impulses and the visual gratification you get from porn. It’s empty. Porn is fun to watch with a girl but useless to watch by yourself. You’re only fucking yourself. It’s a detriment to men.
And that’s how I trained Katilyn. She’d had more than her fair share of fun in college. She’d had a FWB who would let her fuck his friends in MMF threesomes and we’ve gotten into discussions about that. I asked her why she would do that, why would you let him just pass you around like that? She was like, “Because they were hotter than him.” You know, I can’t blame her for that. If any dude’s girlfriend said he could fuck another girl he would do it. I might not agree with it, it might make me cringe at the thought of her getting the train ran on her by her fucking faggot ass beta fuck buddy from college. But that doesn’t have anything to do with me. It doesn’t have anything to do with her feelings for me. It doesn’t have anything to do with our current relationship. It’s not an indicator of any future desires for her to get fucker by two dudes again and she’s completely submitted to me and my dominance. That’s how it has to be in order to maintain your frame. Because if you’re not sexually dominant, then you’re woman’s going to walk all over you. And if you can’t satisfy your woman sexually then she’s going to look for it somewhere else. That’s my core belief and my strongest point of game, my sexually dominance. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Some guys want to brag about how they never go down on a woman or how they don’t give a shit if she gets off. That’s how you become a one night stand only machine. You can’t get repeat business if you don’t have women missing your dick.
If you want women to miss your cock go check out Red Pill Orgasm.[This is Part 2 of 3 in my series on Sexual Dominance leading up to my debut E-Book Red Pill Dominance. I expand on these topics and more. Click here to check it out]