“Be the change you want to see in the world”
A fitting quote for this point in my life. Swallowing the red pill comes with a certain bitter taste. Destroying the lies told to men from birth hurts. Allowing yourself to read the negativity spouted from fat feminists uncouth mouths hurts. Engaging idiots on twitter hurts. Wasting time arguing politics hurts.
All of these paths lead to no where. Politics is a smoke and mirror show. Feminist’s will always seek out things to make them “rage” and spout insults and death threats on twitter/tumblr. But there comes a time in every man’s life that he must rise above the rubble. My time is now.
From this moment on, I am taking an oath. I’ll even throw in a bullet pointed list that I know people love, with our rapidly decreasing attention spans.
I could go on but I hope you get the point. There is an alarming amount of negativity in the world today. Men claiming that all american woman are filthy whores, dreaming of far away pussy paradises. It’s simply not true. When you have actual experience with women you know this. There are good woman out there. Build yourself into a man worthy of high quality and they will reveal themselves naturally.
Doc Illusion nailed in on his blog. No one is forced to write a blog and link to the other writers of the ‘sphere. If you don’t like it, get the fuck out or be the change you want. No more bitching, no more excuses.
The manosphere is wide ranging. Not everyone can be as tall or good looking as everyone else. That doesn’t mean that what they say is worthless. I guess the bromigos are shutting their blog down. That’s a bummer to me. When I first started online dating they had a wealth of openers and lines that helped me out. I understand where he’s coming from, but not in his execution. I saw the pics of Matt Forney and I had the same reaction “this dude doesn’t look anything like he writes, why should i listen to him”. But everyone has to play the hand they’re dealt. Matt is a fantastic writer and a million times more prolific than I. He never claims to be a giant pussy magnet or some PUA guru. He just writes about the experience’s he observes in his travels.
Ya Danny is short and bald. That makes his game advice even more relevant. When I try to give people advice based on lines i’ve used online, I come from a position of being 6’2, white and damn handsome. So what works for me might not work for everybody. That’s the beauty of the manosphere. We have a variety of people from all walks of life, coming together and sharing ideas, stories and just getting to know each other.
In closing, if all you feed your mind is negativity, all you’ll output into the world is negativity. I’ve spent the last two years feeding anything and everything into my mind. Now it’s time to filter the negative into the spam folder where it belongs.
Positivity is the name of the game for 2014.
See you on the flip side.