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Evolution of the Manosphere

Published December 30, 2013 in Manosphere - 18 Comments

“Be the change you want to see in the world”

– Ghandi

A fitting quote for this point in my life. Swallowing the red pill comes with a certain bitter taste. Destroying the lies told to men from birth hurts. Allowing yourself to read the negativity spouted from fat feminists uncouth mouths hurts. Engaging idiots on twitter hurts. Wasting time arguing politics hurts.

All of these paths lead to no where. Politics is a smoke and mirror show. Feminist’s will always seek out things to make them “rage” and spout insults and death threats on twitter/tumblr. But there comes a time in every man’s life that he must rise above the rubble. My time is now.

From this moment on, I am taking an oath. I’ll even throw in a bullet pointed list that I know people love, with our rapidly decreasing attention spans.

  • I will not link to anything with the intention of taking them down or exposing the blatant lies they speak of.
  • I will only write positive articles meant to inspire, enlighten or educate.
  • I will not waste time on reddit, the cesspool of feminism and SJW’s.
  • I will post my pictures highlighting my progress up till now and continuing in the future. If someone wants to attempt to get me fired because of whatever bullshit reason they get offended with, go ahead. I’ll just come out stronger without 40 hours of punching a clock.
  • I won’t get into American politics. No matter who we vote for, they win. They being the elites that run the charade we call “elections”
  • I will be posting from a much bigger picture perspective. No more whining about problems that have been building for decades and instead offering solutions to finding true happiness.
  • I will make every effort to meet in person every person I find influential to the manosphere.
  • I will not take the low hanging fruits and beat them to a pulp to prove how “alpha” I am.

I could go on but I hope you get the point. There is an alarming amount of negativity in the world today. Men claiming that all american woman are filthy whores, dreaming of far away pussy paradises. It’s simply not true. When you have actual experience with women you know this. There are good woman out there. Build yourself into a man worthy of high quality and they will reveal themselves naturally.

Doc Illusion nailed in on his blog. No one is forced to write a blog and link to the other writers of the ‘sphere. If you don’t like it, get the fuck out or be the change you want. No more bitching, no more excuses.

The manosphere is wide ranging. Not everyone can be as tall or good looking as everyone else. That doesn’t mean that what they say is worthless. I guess the bromigos are shutting their blog down. That’s a bummer to me. When I first started online dating they had a wealth of openers and  lines that helped me out. I understand where he’s coming from, but not in his execution. I saw the pics of Matt Forney and I had the same reaction “this dude doesn’t look anything like he writes, why should i listen to him”. But everyone has to play the hand they’re dealt. Matt is a fantastic writer and a million times more prolific than I. He never claims to be a giant pussy magnet or some PUA guru. He just writes about the experience’s he observes in his travels.

Ya Danny is short and bald. That makes his game advice even more relevant. When I try to give people advice based on lines i’ve used online, I come from a position of being 6’2, white and damn handsome. So what works for me might not work for everybody. That’s the beauty of the manosphere. We have a variety of people from all walks of life, coming together and sharing ideas, stories and just getting to know each other.

In closing, if all you feed your mind is negativity, all you’ll output into the world is negativity. I’ve spent the last two years feeding anything and everything into my mind. Now it’s time to filter the negative into the spam folder where it belongs.

Positivity is the name of the game for 2014.


See you on the flip side.






Python - December 30, 2013 Reply

Finally 🙂 manosphere is good stuff, but too much whining going on. women this, women that, yeah fuck it, we know, dont get caught up in it, be something

(ED: exactly. Don’t tell me about it, BE about it.)

MattC - December 30, 2013 Reply

I argued with myself whether to comment on this or not, because I can’t be bothered to deal with the shit storm it’ll probably cause in doing so. But I’ll do so anyway.

I agree with your post, there’s a lot of negativity in the manosphere and there are people talking about issues which only serves to enrage themselves (ie feminism articles, women becoming more masculine, etc). Have I been negative? Sure I have. It’s plain to see for anyone that’s followed my blog this year the battles I’ve faced and I didn’t execute my last post as well as I could’ve or perhaps should’ve.

We never wanted our blog to be two things: full of PUA language, and writing shit about politics and feminism. This is where the bitterness I feel comes from in this side of the net. Compare the old Heartiste to the new, for example (different writers, I know) and you’ll know what I’m talking about.

As I said in my post, Matt and Danny have good blogs and are great writers. I used to read their blogs a lot when I first got into learning about Game and got value out of them. As I’ve progressed in my life this year (building wealth, having sex with hotter and hotter girls, changing my style and changing my attitude to women), a lot of blogs I used to read I stopped reading. Matt and Danny were in this list I dropped because I couldn’t relate to them anymore.

I won’t apologise for what I said, but I’ll apologise for the execution. In hindsight, it wasn’t done correctly and I feel a lot of people missed what I was saying, and what I was trying to say is being echoed by people like you in these blog posts now. If you don’t get value from something, don’t read it. That’s what I was expressing, just in my own way (which isn’t necessarily the right way and I’ll be the first to admit that).

In my life, where I’m at now, I don’t feel I can get value from the manosphere. As I said, I’ve treated it like a stepping stone, met the people I’ve wanted to and am still in contact with people I’d like to meet. These guys I want in my life are for different reasons, like the ones I mentioned above (style, wealth, having sex with the cream of the crop, and overall a positive attitude to women – the last one being particularly poignant).

I think people have taken my post in its entirety as an attack on the two I mentioned. This isn’t the case at all. Outside of that one paragraph I wrote where their names were mentioned, I was speaking generally or with other places in mind (particularly people on RVF).

I’ve got enough self awareness to know my flaws – one being a bit of a gobshite. Sometimes I write things or say things that is influenced by my overall state, and this month has been particularly rough. That’d come to no surprise to anyone who read the post.

No doubt people have talked privately about it and have negative opinions of me now, and honestly I’m not bothered. Matt was man enough to just let it slide (God knows he gets enough negative coverage) and Danny said what he had to say and moved on. People can talk shit about me on here, they’re entitled to. But it doesn’t bother me because they don’t know the real me and honestly, it’s just the internet where I don’t plan on meeting anyone beyond the select few I’m in contact with. Just as I imagine it doesn’t bother those like Danny and Matt who are probably thinking to themselves “who the fuck is this? He doesn’t know who I am”. We’re all criticising internet personas here, really. As real as we try to be, it’s still just the internet. I could say x person on RVF seems like a cunt, and maybe he’s being a cunt in a certain thread or whatever, but I bet him and I could shoot the shit and have a good laugh together in person.

It’s not serious business. As I said, I know I could’ve said things better. I know I’m not the most articulate and I know I didn’t think things through as well as I could’ve.

If we let things like this (internet drama) bother us on a deep level, then we’re not allowed to say we’re the men we claim to be. Danny’s reaction was exactly what I thought it’d be: give shit back, let it go and move on. As it would be my reaction had someone dropped my name out of the blue like I did his.

I haven’t even checked my blog since a few days ago. I can’t be bothered with it and getting into petty arguments which really don’t actually affect our lives at all. I’m taking it as I do everything in my life: a learning experience and a chance to grow/improve from it.

“Positivity is the name of the game for 2014” – good for you. I’d recommend a DVD called “The Secret” or to research what it’s based on (“the law of attraction”) which is something I’ve practiced for years, although faltering at times due to other circumstances.

Glad you got some value out of the blog. I’m toying with the idea of writing an online dating Ebook but I’m not sure at this stage.

Happy new year, lad.

    Jsploosh - December 30, 2013 Reply

    I don’t think you owe anyone an apology. I’ve done similar things in my own life. If i’m the only one adding value and everyone else is taking why the fuck should i stay. I get it brah. I’m happy you have the ability to self reflect, analyze your life and decide where you want to go from here. If you’re not evolving then you’re not living.

    I’m in the same boat. I don’t need to read pick up blogs and field reports. I have abundance in that area of my life. So i’ll find new blogs from people who have what I don’t and learn my ass off.

    I think this is a huge turning point for all of us. Collectively we need to leave the troll-baiting to the pros (ROK and Matt Forney.) and start providing solutions.

    As for the secret and law of attraction. I’m already there. Learning about the oneness of the universe and basically coming full circle from my strict fundie christian upbringing to my internet fueled atheism back to my current “we were created and everything in the entire universe is connect”

    That’s the direction i’m taking my blog. I want to be a place that everyone from all walks of life can come read and say damn i’ve never thought of it like that. Provoke some deeper thinking than feminism, celebrities and societies illusions.

    By 2015 i hope to be free, location wise. I’ll hit you guys up when i’m across the pond.

    Happy fucking new year pimp.

    Dannyfrom504 - December 31, 2013 Reply

    In case you missed it. I never came at you directly.

    You disagree with me and or can’t relate to me. Ok. But your mate had a good time hanging out with me, nuff said.

thecaptainpower - December 30, 2013 Reply

Thats why I am slowly switching over to more fitness and lifestyle writing, my next 2 books are going to be fitness related. I’ve found 90% of people in the manosphere to be full of shit…

    Jsploosh - December 30, 2013 Reply

    Ya i’ve been waiting to finish my cut to start really getting into the fitness aspect. Can’t give advice if i’m not ripped. About 2 more months and i should be ready.

Dannyfrom504 - December 30, 2013 Reply

I love how I never make it a secret that I’m short and average looking. But guys keep glomming on to that. Lol.

Hide yer gf, I’ll get her to drop her panties for a quicky if you aren’t looking.

    Jsploosh - December 31, 2013 Reply

    hahaha you tried that on my girl danny. keep trying ; )

      dannyfrom504 - December 31, 2013 Reply

      out of respect for you, i quit. lol. but she was grinning as i gamed her- you know that Brother. i’ll be out in your part of the world soon enough. we’ll hunt and have fun. besides, i need to surf again.

BecomingReal - December 31, 2013 Reply

I like what I hear… about the law of attraction and about all the negativity. There’s a little something about it that I’d like to add though. There must be negativity in order to have positivity. In everything. How else would you actually differentiate between both. But yeah, choosing not to focus on negative things, negative thoughts and negative people is what matters. And through the law of attraction (or how I’d like to believe it is) I went to m3’s blog, and bunch of other guys from the manosphere, then on to Kaitlyn’s blog, and now I am here. And it’s been recently that I swallowed the red pill. And I might still be digesting it, slowly, but steadily. And I must thank you Jeremy, that I feel like you are the inspiration for me to start on a blog of mine, with bits of the manosphere, but since I am coming from a different part of the world, same rules might or might not apply here. Anyway, it was here that I actually saw that I can shape it into something that’s digestible for my system, so thanks for that and I am looking forward to seeing the change that you want to see in the world.

will - December 31, 2013 Reply

Now that the problem has been identified. Let the rebuilding begin.

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Keanu - January 4, 2014 Reply

Have to agree–there is no point in whining and harping. This is wasted energy.

Putting all of your energy into positive change is where it’s at. One of my goals this year as well.

    Jsploosh - January 6, 2014 Reply

    Absolutely brother. 2014 is shaping up to be Legend-wait for it- dary.

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John D. Rockefeller - January 11, 2014 Reply

A white supremacist quoting a brown man. The height of irony! ROFL

    Jsploosh - January 11, 2014 Reply

    How on earth do you infer than I’m a white supremacist ? Don’t be a troll.

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